Singer Jose Chameleone has defended his son, Abba Marcus Mayanja, following criticism over becoming a father at a young age, insisting the milestone should not be viewed as a reflection of failed parenting.
The Leone Island founder shared his thoughts during an interview with Douglas Lwanga, where he spoke openly about his reaction to the news that Abba was expecting his first child.
According to Chameleone, raising children is not about expecting perfection but about helping them navigate life’s challenges when they arise.
“I haven’t failed as a father yet because a child first makes a mistake, you understand it, then you correct and guide them.”
The veteran musician said he was aware that many people considered Abba’s decision to start a family while still young to be a mistake.
He, however, said he does not see it the same way. Instead, he believes a parent’s responsibility is to offer guidance once a child faces a life-changing situation.
Chameleone also revealed how he first learned he was about to become a grandfather. He recalled receiving a phone call from Abba, who said he had important news to share.
“He called me and said, ‘Papa, I have some news for you. I have so much news, but which one should I start with?’ I told him to start anywhere, and he said, ‘The first one is that you’re going to become a grandfather this year.’”
The announcement marked a new chapter for both father and son. Abba Marcus recently welcomed his first child, making Jose Chameleone a grandfather.
Although Chameleone admitted that his first instinct as a father was to feel that Abba had become a parent too early, he said his priorities quickly changed.
Rather than dwelling on the timing, he focused on encouraging his son to accept the responsibilities that come with raising a child.
“As a person, I was happy. However, as his father, I told him I would have preferred that he became a father later because he is still young. But since the baby is already on the way, if you are ready to take care of your child, then love your girlfriend because someone can become a father at 40 and still fail to be responsible.”
For Chameleone, responsibility matters more than age. He suggested that becoming a parent later in life does not automatically make someone a better father. Instead, he believes commitment and accountability define good parenting.
The singer also shared another piece of advice he gave Abba during their conversations. He encouraged his son to nurture a respectful and supportive relationship with the child’s mother.
“The last thing I told him was, ‘You have seen me over the years. If you love your wife and she loves you, always look out for each other,’”
While Chameleone referred to loving one’s wife in his advice, it has not been confirmed whether Abba Marcus is married. Similarly, details including the identity of the child’s mother, the baby’s name, gender and date of birth have not been publicly confirmed.
The interview offers a rare glimpse into Chameleone’s approach to parenting away from the stage. Instead of responding defensively to public criticism, he framed the discussion around guidance, responsibility and family support.
His comments also come at a time when conversations about young parenthood frequently attract public debate, particularly when they involve well-known personalities.
Rather than focusing on the criticism directed at Abba Marcus, Chameleone said his concern has been ensuring his son understands the responsibilities that come with fatherhood. That includes caring for his child and maintaining a healthy relationship with the child’s mother.
As one of Uganda’s most recognisable musicians, Chameleone’s family life often attracts public attention alongside his music career. His latest remarks provide insight into how he views fatherhood, not only as a parent but now also as a grandfather.
For now, Abba Marcus has begun a new chapter as a first-time father, while Jose Chameleone says his role remains what it has always been, to guide, advise and support his son as he embraces the responsibilities of parenthood.
